Thursday, October 24, 2013

#138 Twenty

Finally had the time to update this space! So much has happened since i last blogged. I had so much fun/laughter/sadness/anger within the last 1 week. Everything was hell of a roller coaster ride.

 Relationship
I got into one of the worst fights i've ever had one day before i went genting but now we're doing so good. This is also why i feel love is pretty interesting and scary at the same time. The person who love you very much right now may not love you the same tomorrow or vice versa. Right now, i'm so in love i wish i hug my bf to sleep every night yums

Career
Let's just say working for senile people sucks. Not as a caregiver but someone who takes you for granted. I finally quit my job on Tuesday and i've never been happier.
(The story's rather wordy so if you're not interested, just keep scrolling downwards)
Tuesday, i woke up really early so i won't be late for work so T.O.M (The Old Man) couldn't find any fault with me plus i knew there was going to be an intern at my work place and i didn't want to be a bad example and yea i was early.

All i can say was my tuesday morning sucked pretty bad. Bad things just kept happening... continuously.

1. The normal 20 minute journey to work became 45 minutes. I took the same bus I took every single morning Zzz

2. Upon reaching work, the intern took MY seat.
I was already fuming cuz what i knew was the intern was supposed to used the laptop instead of my desktop but it wasn't his fault cuz i was on MC on Monday. I called TOM and he told me to let him use and he asked me to sit around till he comes down.

I already had plans to leave the company at the end of this month so i was sorta finding the appropriate time to ask TOM how long notice must i give before i can quit so..... this was what happened
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*TOM arrives* 
He asked me out of the office to have a chat. 
One thing i was already unhappy about is that a week before i left for bangkok, i told him i am taking leave on 16-18 October and he told me to go ahead with my plans but also send an email so this person, (let's name her person A) will be aware that i will not be in the office during that period of time and so i did. Since I already told him and the email was only to notify the dates that i am not around, i sent this on the 3rd October

''I will be on leave from 16-18 Oct 2013 (Wed, Thurs and Fri)
Pls note, thx''

I decided to just be straightforward and clear.
But when i was at Malaysia, TOM called me and asked me to do some stuffs so i told him i was on leave and was in Malaysia. He sounded shocked, as though i didn't let him know in advance. 

When i came back to Sg, my mum called me and told me that TOM called her and told her that i didn't applied for leave and went off w/o telling him. I was so bloody pissed but thank God my mum believed me and without even me telling her i did send an email, she told him it wasn't possible i would have left w/o notifying him. So I sent him a message with the print screen of the email that I sent to him, and this time he came up with another story.

He told my mum, 'Sending email is one thing, approval is another' I knew that was it, like i do not want to work with such people whose unreasonable to a whole new level. I asked him outside the office about the leave and told him I already mentioned about the leave thing and he approved and you know what was his third story? 
'You sounded like you're demanding for leave'
That was seriously the last straw, I couldn't take it anymore. How can someone be so unreasonable? He continued yakking and i stopped him and asked about not wanting to work for him anymore and he told me that i do not have to wait, i could leave now if i want, i just need to hand him the key and so i did. I packed my stuff and cabbed home at about 12pm. 

I never felt happier! I'd rather be jobless than have someone who takes advantage of me or accuses me. I thank God i do not have to tolerate shit anymore.
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Met Nab at 5+ cuz i was feeling rather shitty and i didn't want to stay home. I felt so much better after meeting her.
We did so many things with so little time, we managed to get Krispy Kreme w/o queueing up and to be honest, it was nothing great but right now, i'm kinda craving for it.

Headed over to Makisan around 8 and Syaza joined us.
The thing i like about Makisan is that you get to put all your favourite ingredients together but i don't know if it's worth paying $9.90 for it.
Spent the entire night walking around Orchard and my feet were hurting from the new shoes I was wearing. Nobody cared when i told them my feet were hurting. They told me to stop complaining and just keep walking. Friends i have. HA HA HA

They finally gave in and we sat down at Starbucks. We didn't get any drinks cuz the counter was downstairs and we were all too lazy to go down just to get a drink.
At this moment, i still don't know they are trying to waste my time Zzz and they were actually in cahoots with my boyfriend.

They said they wanted to come over and i said okay since my bf wasn't gonna meet me till my birthday dinner, which was the plan i had with my bf. We cabbed to my house cuz my feet were really sore and when i was reaching my round about, i saw my bf's car. HAHAHA FAIL
But being a nice soul, i pretended i didn't know anything but Nab kept panicking and spoke in malay to Dinah but she forgot i kinda understand whatever she was saying........

Went into my room and my dearest bf was holding on to a cake.
So tiut!! But it was 11.40pm so it wasn't really my birthday but it's the effort that counts right?? I really appreciate it a lot as people who know Asy knows that he isn't the kind of sweet romantic guy and him doing this is already stepping out of his cave. Hehehe
Sho much wuvvvv
(Took this after i opened my presents and i alr changed into my Paul Frank Furry Boxers hehe too comfy!!)
Three loves of my life. XXX
yom yom

And on the bed were these
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So nicely wrapped right! The bf told me he didn't know how to wrap so he brought the wrappers over and asked my maid to help him wrap.
Thank you guys for the surprise although it sorta failed :p
Luv you guys so so so much!

23.10.2013 // Wednesday
Met the Bf at 5+ for dinner at 1 Market and at the MRT station, he surprised me with a birthday balloon! Too many surprises from Asy this year hehe i feel so loved
Why so cute sigh
It's mostly malay cuisine but there were other cuisines too, it's not bad but i would say it's rather pricey for the food they offer? It's $84.27 for 2 pax

First place i headed to was the sashimi area! What's a buffet dinner for Jaslyn w/o salmon sashimi!?!
Before we went to 1 Market, silly boy randomly brought me to Pandora and pointed to this bracelet and asked, 'this is the one you want right?' i'm like 'ya' and the next moment, he asked for the sales person and said 'Hi, i would like one of this' and he bought it. 

After we left Pandora, he gave me a small pandora box containing a charm and told me it was from Nab and Jo. The charm is too qt!!! I'm gonna be addicted collecting the charms.
Being a very loving girlfriend, i accompanied him to look for his shoes in my heels despite my feet being in pain. Asy didn't allow me to buy slippers cuz according to him, i would look very ugly so i had to bear with the pain but he held on to me and make sure i didn't fall.  

After so much walking around town, he finally found the shoe in his size at The Cathay and because he spent so much on me on my birthday, i bought him the shoes he wanted. My relationship with Asy is the kind where we give and take so yup we are both happy kids adults today ^__^

Decided to stop by starbucks to rest our tired feet
Happy boy with his shoe but i guess he's more of tired since he reached home rather late last night and had to wake up early this morning for school
My fav shoulder in the world
 uhm more camwhoring
and more
xoxoxo
And despite being so tired, he decided to take the bus home with me and halfway through the journey, he knocked out.
Here's my birthday song from Asy before he knocked out!
These are my presents from the boyfriend and not forgetting my genting trip which he paid for. Beyond blessed
and red packets from my fam!!!! i love red packets hehehe

To the love of my life:
Thank you for everything you've done for my birthday. I loved every single bit of my birthday, even the surprise. I know you're upset that it failed but it really touched me. I know how you took on tedious job and how you saved your money just to make sure you had enough moolah to get me the things i wanted and everything else. Most of all, thank you for all the things you've given me that money can't buy, your love, patience and attention. I may not be the best girlfriend in the world but thank you for loving me just as i am. I love you very much and here's to more birthdays together <3

And now, here's a picture of me to end of my birthday post ^__^
Till next time
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